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Christmas, Covid and Separation

For many parents, the issue of spending time with children at Christmas can be tense. Both parents want to spend Christmas day with their loved ones and their children, but this becomes complicated when they do not live in the same town or city or if they have to travel to visit relatives. In this article, we look at some of the key issues and questions surrounding, Christmas and coronavirus for separated parents.

Do I have a right to see my children at Christmas?

In a 2014 study of separated parents, it was found that 23% of separated couples spend Christmas Day together, 28% take turns each year, and 15% of parents opt to allow children to spend Christmas Day with their primary caregiver. Furthermore, 14% let the children choose, and 11% of children with separated parents have ‘two Christmas Days’.

What happens at Christmas varies greatly from family to family, and there is no automatic right in law to see your children on Christmas Day. You must come to an agreement with your former partner about the arrangements. The courts are reluctant to intervene in such matters and will only become involved after other methods of resolution have been exhausted.

Are you allowed to travel to meet family at Christmas?

There are currently no travel restrictions in the five-day period between 23rd -27th December 2020. 

Can children move between the homes of separated parents?

Yes, for the purposes of arrangements for access to, and contact between, parents and a child where the child does not live in the same household as their parents or one of their parents.

Children are allowed to move between the homes of separated parents, even if they live in different tiers.

Do child arrangements orders/ contact orders apply during coronavirus restrictions?

A child arrangements order (contact order in Scotland and NI) is an order which regulates where a child lives and when they must spend time with each of their parents. In light of the difficulty parents may face in adhering to such orders during the coronavirus outbreak, the President of the Family Division of the High Court issued guidance for parents. The guidance sets out that parents are free to decide whether any arrangements set out in a child arrangements order should be temporarily changed. However, parents must act in agreement to do so.

At CWJ we know it is more important than ever that we are available for our clients.  We are making use of video and audio conference calling to ensure we are there to support our clients through the crisis.

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